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The Art of Listening in Conflict Resolution.

Author: Jefferson O. Imgbi

Date: Wednesday, July 30, 2025

Key Bible Verse: "He that hath ears to hear, let him hear."  
— Matthew 11:15

The Series Subtitle: The Art of Listening in Conflict Resolution. Part 4 

Affirmation: "I choose to listen with patience, compassion, and an open heart. My ears will reflect love, and my responses will bring peace."

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Day 4: Patience and Silence as Powerful Tools

In conflict, silence often feels uncomfortable, but it is one of the most powerful tools you can use. Proverbs 17:27 says, “He that hath knowledge spareth his words; and a man of understanding is of an excellent spirit.” Practising patience and using silence wisely allows emotions to settle and gives space for thoughtful responses rather than impulsive reactions.

Patience helps you resist the urge to interrupt, defend, or rush to fill every pause with your own words. Silence gives the other person room to express fully and shows that you respect their feelings and thoughts. It transforms arguments into opportunities for clarity and connection rather than fueling more division.

Today, choose to embrace pauses in your conversations. Resist the temptation to immediately answer or correct. Instead, listen calmly, give gentle nods or comforting expressions, and allow silence to do its work. By holding space patiently, you invite deeper honesty and build stronger, more peaceful relationships.

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Connect

Think about a time when someone allowed you to speak freely without interruption. You likely felt safe and valued. Let that experience encourage you to create the same space for others today.

Extend

Jesus often paused before speaking, allowing moments for reflection. He listened patiently, even when people struggled to express their hearts, giving them time to open up fully. Let His example guide your approach.

Reflection And Application

Write down one area where you tend to rush responses. Then write, “Today, I will practise patience and honour silence.” Use this to shape every conversation.

Inspirational Quote by Jefferson O Imgbi

"Silence is not weakness; it is the space where understanding and healing begin to grow."

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Let Us Pray

May God bless your heart with patience and the wisdom to use silence as a tool for peace. May He help you hold space for others to speak and find clarity in every pause. Let your patience reflect His love and bring calm to every conversation. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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