Many people fall in love, get married and work hard at adding value to their relationship for the first year or two. Then the couples become used to being married and start taking each other for granted by not adding or neglecting their values. One or both couples may start looking for these values outside the marriage.
Marriage is very challenging in ways one cannot imagine. Marriage is a business and not all business is the same. There are different models adopted. A marriage is more like a Partnership than an LLC, a partnership whose purpose is the management of a shared life. Two companies merge to form a partnership. Forming mergers are to improve the profitability of the two companies involved. Profitability is a net gain. If one company takes over another, you do not have a merger, you have an acquisition. Acquisitions are not about the coming together of equals. Acquisitions are about one company absorbing another into itself while keeping the essence of its original identity, an identity to which the absorbed company stays subservient.
Certainly, many marriages use the acquisition model. And not that it cannot work, but because people, in general, tend to grow more independent over time, the acquisition model may become problematic as the subservient partner feels increasingly less inclined to remain so.
Every successful business creates the values that will sustain the business and make the business grow. In business, the value is what causes people to want to trade with you. Value is what makes someone decide to hand you their money because they are going to get something they want, something in which they find compelling value.
Value is not fixed or tangible; it rests on perceived benefit. Value is in the mind of the beholder. Innovators work hard to understand exactly what value means to their customers, so they can generate and provide it. Value is an emergent property of the supplier and the consumer; it cannot take place with only one or the other. You need to work hard to generate and give the needed values to your spouse. What your spouse values are not fixed or tangible. You can create new value; you can create more value, or you can create better value. The new value is the most difficult strategy. Creating more value is much easier because you are working with something you already have. Creating better value is also easier because it is an extension of what you are currently doing.
Are you adding value to your marriage? Do you even think about what you can do every day to keep the relationship growing? How does your spouse feel about you if they believe you are compromising rather than giving? If you are giving are you giving in the way your spouse needs you to give? Your purpose in a relationship is to give in the way your partner needs you to give, to give consistency and to add value to their life. If you focus on yourself, then you cannot give as they expected. If you are valuable to your spouse or partner, compromise will disappear and ‘giving’ will take over.
You create value for money either by saving or investing. Where you have money that does not have value, you become poor. Your marriage or relationship becomes poor if you do not add the necessary value. When you give your heart and truly mean it, then you give without expecting anything in return. When you add value because you believe in what you are adding then you do not expect anything in return. The reward for you is in adding the value. It is not your responsibility to ask for reward, that is down to others to give.
Success in anything, be it your career, your hobbies, your relationship, happens and grows when you add value and when those around you who matter see you adding value and want more of the value you bring to their lives. In a relationship, if you both do this for each other and you do this consistently then instead of compromising, you will both become a formidable team working to achieve a common goal thereby meeting each other’s needs. That way you can climb the mountain together in the morning and still be back for tea. The value you both share will bind you.
How you personally define marriage is the foundation of how you treat your marriage and how you commit to your marriage. Your expectations in the marriage will decide what will build or break the relationship. The success of a marriage is dependent upon whether each spouse chooses to value the other highly.
Your marriage is the most important relationship of your life. You must realise your spouse is the person who deserves most of your attention. You must treat your spouse like they are your hero, your king, or queen, and give them the benefit of your best attention. That obviously also implies that you must pay attention when your spouse talks to you. Often, we are guilty of “tuning out” when we get home. We spend all day concentrating at work, and when we get home we just want to relax. That often also result in the fact that we do not listen properly when our spouse talks to us.
Novelty is the quality of being new, original, and unusual. Adding value through novelty simply means kicking our relationship into high gear, with thoughtful experimentation and spontaneity. Finding out what your spouse’s preferences are in the bedroom and catering to those, is a great way to prove that we are placing our spouse’s needs first. Maintaining a surprise element in the sex department is electrifying and amazing. It is, however, unique to each couple and how this plays out will be contingent on things like sexual experience, personality preferences, a willingness to experiment and knowledge about sex. Keep religion and tradition out of this. Make the most of your life together.
The key to is to learn how to increase the value of your spouse. As we learn how to increase the value of our spouses, we increase our ability to deal with anger. One problem is that when people do not see enough value, they try to straighten that person out by using anger. What do you do when you see no value in your spouse? Where you see no value or little value, you must create it. You do not give up. You stay put and deal with the issue. There is no room for escape. You are in this for a lifetime.
Value is a key that opens many doors. Show your spouse, you appreciate him or her and you will add value to their life. When you predict their needs, it adds value. You must pay attention, so you can really know them. It is easy to add value when you understand the power and purpose of love in your relationship. There is no greater power than love! Love can heal the world. Love is pure and decent, innocent, and true. Love will last forever. Love is magical.
Adding Value to Your Marriage— Sex and Relationship. Featured
Written by Jefferson O Imgbi
539523 comments
-
Comment Link
Saturday, 31 July 2021 20:59
posted by ketquabongro
Giày Bóng Rổ Giá Rẻ Bền đẹp Nhất, Chi Phí Sốc, Nên Lựa Chọn Ở Đâu[url="https://chiefscreolecafe.com/detail/kqbd7m-101639.html"]chuyển dộng 24h mới nhất[/url]Lần đầu tiên ra đôi mắt thì giày Jordan 1 có màu đỏ, white và đen phối với nhau. Với upper mỏng manh nhẹ nhàng và đế bền rộng cùng bộ đệm lấy thẳng kể từ Crazylight Boost 2016, tạm thời Rose 8 cũng rất đáng nhằm thử.
-
Comment Link
Saturday, 31 July 2021 20:28
posted by sex club porn
Use the camera or microphone on your desktop, laptop, mobile phone, or tablet to video chat with other members.
That’s right: you can use our camera and microphone features from most smartphones without the need for
plug-ins or plug-ins. Fully mobile chat rooms will allow you to use your smartphone’s camera to share photos or stream from the camera just like any other webcam.
We wanted everyone to be able to use it, to be safe, secure, and compatible with the largest possible number of devices
and browsers, so we have achieved our primary development goal.
2- You can use the application completely free of charge.
The site is completely free and it doesn’t ask you
for payment at all. We have reviewed these sites and
by reading our reviews you will get to know each site has to offer.
All of the live sex chat sites listed here were fully reviewed
by one of our experts and was handpicked as one of the best.
Stripchat is one of the fastest growing live cam sites on the web with an average of 500-800
models online every hour. For years, the most
popular web chat rooms have used Java, Flash
or any other third-party software. -
Comment Link
Saturday, 31 July 2021 20:26
posted by bestlivesexsites.com
The fact she killed Maulin Rathod in July 2018 had not been disputed by her or anyone else.
Maulin Rathod tapped frantically to signal Jamie Lee Dohleguy he wanted her to
release her grip. Meet quality singles in your area or worldwide looking for dating, friends, get
laid, marriage, one night stand, or just someone to chat or hang out with.
Meet naughty women and young girls seeking for hookup.Go for sex dating
with local singles nearby you and have fun tonight.Girls and
women are more likely to have hook ups with someone they
are not dating. Our personals are a free and easy way to
find other singles girls looking for fun, love, hookup, local sex, or friendship near me.
Obviously in the event that you just wish to satisfy individuals from your strict, you can demonstrate this in your dating
personals thought. So in the event that you are scanning for individuals to appreciate hookup or appreciate
connections like companions with benefits then you ought to be searching for us.
Meet hot girls,women today and appreciate hookup session.Local women are hanging tight for you to move toward them and have intercourse dating.Go for guide ups and get into no hidden obligations relationship. -
Comment Link
Saturday, 31 July 2021 19:46
posted by MatthewmaipS
viagra best buy cost of viagra buy sildenafil citrate
viagra europe sildenafil from india sildenafil online -
Comment Link
Saturday, 31 July 2021 19:42
posted by Alanslems
ivermectin price usa
-
Comment Link
Saturday, 31 July 2021 19:40
posted by mojlife review
Please let me know if you're looking for a writer for your weblog.
You have some really good posts and I believe I would be a good asset.
If you ever want to take some of the load off, I'd absolutely love to write some
material for your blog in exchange for a link back
to mine. Please blast me an email if interested. Thanks! -
Comment Link
Saturday, 31 July 2021 19:32
posted by Bmboo Cutlery Storage Drawer Organizer
Bmboo Cutlery Storage Drawer Organizer https://www.bridgestylefurnishings.com/bmboo-cutlery-storage-drawer-organizer/
-
Comment Link
Saturday, 31 July 2021 19:15
posted by sex show online
@RealDeanCain Disabled Vet here trying to Alert BUSH/OBAMA Terms USMC on San Diego CO Bases that Hidden Videocam's in Base Showers Sent Live Feed of "STR8 USM'S IN SHOWERS" As Gay Porn.
Have Proof. OBAMA Shut me Down with Homophobe Label But
Now U Must be Told. Help me Expose? -
Comment Link
Saturday, 31 July 2021 18:57
posted by Naked Women Sex
“Why is (Insert really good vocalist usually Freddie Mercury) always being compared to god, I mean he’s pretty good and
all but he’s no (Artist’s name)”
“Video quality: 144p
Song quality: 4K”
“ng>naked girg>
0% Money
0% Drugs
0% Cars
0% Autotung>1g>% talent” -
Comment Link
Saturday, 31 July 2021 18:29
posted by kartell big battery tischlampe
My brother recommended I might like this web site.
He was entirely right. This post truly made my day.
You can not imagine just how much time I had spent for this
info! Thanks!