So, what is wrong with you?
Why do you not believe in yourself?
What is your excuse this time?
Why is there even an excuse?
I look at you, and I am seeing more than a million possibilities that you are making it. I did not say you will make it because it has gone beyond that. You are in progress, but the only limitation I see here is your mindset.
I had a conversation with a female friend. She was narrating the problems another friend of ours was going through because of her husband. I had to stop her when she said our collective friend has a problem. I don't think she has a problem. I think her husband is the one with the situation. Soon, she would have accumulated enough knowledge about her situation, and she will start asking questions which is what she is doing now. Soon she will understand the issues at hand, and she will discover she's being abused. At this point, some people will tell you that they know their rights. Knowledge is power. The moment she finds who she is, she will act. The moment she understands she is being abused and the husband is in real trouble. I have seen this same drama play a million times in different scenarios.
The single most significant key to your behaviour is your self-esteem. It's impossible to consistently behave in a manner inconsistent with how you see yourself. You can positively do very few things if you feel negative about yourself. No factor is more critical in your psychological development and motivation than the value judgments you make about yourself. Every aspect of your life is impacted by the way you see yourself. If you believe you are worthless, then you won't add value to yourself. No factor is more critical in your psychological development and motivation than the value judgments you make about yourself. You will be unable to out-perform your self-image.
Self-esteem, also known as self-worth and self-respect, is the opinion you have about yourself. It is magical because the way you share your worthiness with others is through your attitude, behaviour, character, and mannerism. In psychology, your self-esteem is used to describe your sense of self-worth or personal value. In other words, it is how much you like yourself. Your self-esteem involves various beliefs about yourself, such as how you look, how you feel and how you gauge your personal successes or failures.
If you have healthy self-esteem, you are likely to feel optimistic about your abilities and have a sunnier approach to life, in general. Whereas if you have low self-esteem, studies have linked poor self-image with various problems that can affect everything from the way you view your life, your career, your endeavours, and how you conduct your relationships. If you feel negative about yourself or your life to the extent that it's impacting your ability to function, I recommend speaking to your GP or considering talking therapy.
Self-esteem is the degree to which you feel confident, valuable, and worthy of respect. It exists on a continuum from high to low. Where a person's self-esteem falls on this spectrum can influence one's overall well-being. People with high self-esteem often feel good about themselves and their progress through life. People with low self-esteem often feel shame and self-doubt. They often spend lots of time criticising themselves. Low self-esteem is a symptom of several mental health conditions, such as anxiety and depression. People with low self-esteem are likely to have a downgrading opinion of themselves.
People will always value you to the extent you love yourself. Stop making every issue about them. You were the one that placed the price tag on your forehead, and they saw the value you gave yourself; hence they devalued you. They did not disvalue you because you are not valuable, but they did because you informed them you are not valuable. If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured the world will not raise the price. If you want to become the person you have the potential to be, you must believe you can.
The moment you limit what you will do, you have eventually limited what you can do. One of the reasons you have low self-esteem is because you have some limiting beliefs. You must move beyond your limiting beliefs if your desire is to be successful in life. If you don't believe you can accomplish anything, then you won't. Prayer cannot change this fact. You need to renew your mind and change the thoughts in your mind for prayer to influence your desires. Low self-esteem can contribute to mental health concerns. Low self-esteem has long-term damaging effects.
The mirror effect reflects oneself through the gaze of others. It is used in education as a metacognition tool and as a vector of knowledge. The mirror effect can be obtained directly from another person through observation, listening to his or her comments, or watching a video. Mirroring is the behaviours in which one person unconsciously imitates the gesture, speech pattern, or attitude. The ability to mimic another person's actions allows the infant to establish a sense of empathy and thus begin to understand another person's emotions.
The Law of the Mirror proposes that the origin of our negative feelings towards another person is within our "heart" and not in the other person. What this law teaches us is that emotions are born from within ourselves. Anger is usually born towards oneself and not towards the other person.
The mirror effect is about the value you see in yourself to add value to yourself. The general attitude about life is the fact that people invest in what is valuable. When last did you invest in yourself? You are not investing in yourself because you have not seen the value in yourself. How can you add value to others if you don't have value or have not added value to yourself? In life, you cannot give to others what you don't have.
In life, you tend to get whatever you are willing to tolerate. If you allow others to disrespect you and trip all over you, you will be disrespected in magnitude more than you anticipate. If you accept abuse, you will be abused. If you think it is OK to be overworked and underpaid, then your prayers will be answered. If you want to feel valued, you must add value to others. Learn to live a valued centred life.
Contributing to other people and adding value to their lives is the tangible means to gain another person's buy-in, and through this means you will get others to believe in you. For apparent reasons, this is important in many facets of life: leadership, friendships, relationships, connecting with new people, and especially with your family. If you want people to respect and regard you, then you must add value to their lives—otherwise, you're just dead weight.
Why have you refused to reach your potential? Am I wrong to say it is because you do not believe in yourself? I am right. Yes, I think I am. You have low self-esteem.
66300 comments
-
Comment Link
Friday, 09 December 2022 05:00
posted by golden goose
I really wanted to write a small word in order to say thanks to you for those wonderful ideas you are sharing on this site. My considerable internet search has at the end of the day been compensated with really good know-how to write about with my friends. I 'd claim that we visitors are very much lucky to exist in a really good network with very many outstanding people with good solutions. I feel extremely grateful to have used your entire site and look forward to plenty of more fabulous minutes reading here. Thank you again for a lot of things.
-
Comment Link
Friday, 09 December 2022 04:55
posted by Sex Shop Romania
Really appreciate you sharing this article post.Really looking forward to read more. Will read on...
-
Comment Link
Friday, 09 December 2022 02:35
posted by kyrie 6
I am also writing to make you understand what a impressive experience our child had visiting your blog. She came to understand a good number of things, not to mention how it is like to possess a wonderful coaching heart to let the mediocre ones with no trouble know certain complex issues. You undoubtedly surpassed her expected results. Many thanks for churning out those productive, dependable, informative as well as easy tips on the topic to Gloria.
-
Comment Link
Friday, 09 December 2022 02:04
posted by yeezy shoes
I am commenting to make you understand what a perfect discovery my wife's child had studying the blog. She learned several things, including how it is like to have a very effective teaching spirit to let most people very easily know certain complex matters. You really did more than my expectations. Thanks for displaying such powerful, healthy, informative and even cool tips on that topic to Janet.
-
Comment Link
Friday, 09 December 2022 00:39
posted by PaxtonViachen
credit 60000€
-
Comment Link
Friday, 09 December 2022 00:34
posted by seo Pricing
%%
-
Comment Link
Friday, 09 December 2022 00:16
posted by yeezy boost 350
I am just writing to make you understand of the amazing discovery my girl went through studying your blog. She mastered a wide variety of things, including what it is like to have an incredible teaching mood to let many others easily learn specific impossible subject matter. You undoubtedly surpassed visitors' desires. Thanks for coming up with those warm and friendly, safe, revealing and easy tips about the topic to Ethel.
-
Comment Link
Thursday, 08 December 2022 23:30
posted by off white
My husband and i were very relieved that Raymond managed to round up his preliminary research out of the ideas he grabbed from your very own blog. It is now and again perplexing to simply choose to be giving for free solutions that many some people may have been selling. So we already know we now have the website owner to give thanks to because of that. These illustrations you have made, the easy website menu, the friendships you can make it easier to foster - it is most sensational, and it's letting our son in addition to us reason why the subject is brilliant, which is extremely vital. Many thanks for the whole thing!
-
Comment Link
Thursday, 08 December 2022 23:06
posted by Email Marketing For Hotels
After looking at a handful of the articles on your website, I really like your way of blogging. I bookmarked it to my bookmark site list and will be checking back in the near future. Please check out my web site too and let me know your opinion.
-
Comment Link
Thursday, 08 December 2022 22:08
posted by vyvodaaabbba
vyvodaaabbba
Наркологическая экспресс-клиника Третьеримск окажет анонимную наркологическую шефство больным середины постоянной наркологии в течение Москве. Хостинг-услуги врачевания наркомании, ...
vyvodaaabbba